Love is fragile, love is a delicate thing. If love is understood correctly, then it includes the fact of taking care of others. The meaning of love is taking care of others. If you are going to express your feelings to someone, it is not necessary that another person has to talk about it, or that he has to have the same feelings about you. Isn’t it enough that you have feelings? It is auspicious that the feeling of love has awakened in your heart. Be thankful to yourself.
But it is not necessary that others will have to talk to you or hug you. And if you want to be like that, it’s not love, it’s violence. Atrocities happened. Then you force others. This is violence in the name of love.
Love moves very carefully. Inch by inch it moves carefully. Love sees how far the other is ready to walk. It doesn’t go more than an inch. Because the meaning of love is that you think of the other, and value the other. The second one is feasible. Not an object.
You want to say things! The second one wants to be engaged or not. You have to take steps after seeing the other. And lift it slowly and gently by looking at it. Otherwise the other will get scared. Your love will seem like an attack. You didn’t worry about others. You didn’t stop at such a distance, that you would have asked if I would come near or not. Should I come?
Love always knocks at the door and asks, can I come inside? If there is a refusal, he waits. He doesn’t get angry. Does not get angry because it is the freedom of the other. The other has the right. That when he should talk to you and when not. Love has descended on you, he hasn’t. Love has started spreading within you. The other doesn’t even know anything.
And that other person has suffered so many deceptions in the name of love, so how does he know that no new deception will arise again? people have been persecuted in the name of love. That’s why people are worried. Whenever you told someone “I love you”, that person started getting scared of you. Because now something else will happen in the name of love. Till now they have seen only the corrupted form of love.
People have suffered so much in the name of love. Whenever you express your love to someone, the other person starts worrying. He gets scared. When love becomes aggressive the other gets scared. Aggression should not be in love. Aggression leads to violence in love.
If you forcefully hug a stranger while walking on the road, he will immediately report to the police station that this person is insane. I have nothing to do with it. Love descended within you. bit when you embrace the other, the other also gets included. You are not alone then.
Yes, you can sit alone in your room and sing songs of love, and dance, no one is forbidden.
Otherwise, you have misunderstood the meaning of love. And then there is also the fear that what you think is love, is it love or something else?
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